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What would be your response?
This is almost too stupid to be legal...
It was a beautiful day. I was riding my beloved Penninger on the sidewalk in Delray Beach, Florida (no, the police don't bother me because I'm a traffic hazard if I ride in the street and, besides, riding in the street down here would be suicide). Anyway, I'm stopped for traffic at an intersection (totally on the sidewalk, mind you) because I have to be really carefull in this area - ride slowly, watch every driveway and intersection - this trike is inherently dangerous, many tourists, people who think it is illegal to use turn signals, and blind drivers (read - old farts). So here comes this guy in his late 50's or early 60's driving an SUV (I hate those things...). Remember, I'm still on the sidewalk and totally out of the street. Out of the blue, as he is stopped right in the middle of the crosswalk of the street I want to cross, he shouts to me in a nasty tone, "Why don't you get a f---ing car!?". I was stunned... All I could do was say "why?" then shrug him off. So I peddled on down the sidewalk to the beach as I thought of other responses. Here are some of the things I thought of so far: I don't want to be like you... There are too many assholes in SUVs on the road... As long as you are on the road, I want to be on the sidewalk... Your SUV sucked up all the gas... My Beemer is in the shop... (that's a lie - it is sitting in my driveway collecting dust and bird poop) I don't have room on this thing for my cooler AND a car... Cars are really hard to pedal... My mother drives on these roads... I'm afraid of heights... (hold up a little matchbox car found by the road) got one ...butt... thanks for asking... I'm sure there are much more creative responses and I would really appreciate it if someone would add to the list because, judging from my experiences with people in this area (I just moved here 3 months ago), someone else is bound to make a similar comment in the future and I want to be ready for it ;-) |
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On Fri, 16 Mar 2007 17:05:23 -0400, bcps wrote:
he shouts to me in a nasty tone, "Why don't you get a f---ing car!?". The last time a motorist yelled something similar at me was the passenger in a van. He leant out the window to yell it as the van went past me. I had the good fortune to take a shortcut avoiding a queue I knew he'd be in. As I came back to the queue I saw I was ahead of him (he was in a liveried van - very distinctive). Half a mile further on I turned off the road, so stopped in the turn, stood up and as the van drove past gave it an exaggerated slow hand-clap. The passenger didn't look remotely amused, but the driver was laughing so hard I worried he'd drive into the car in front. More commonly, if someone screams abuse I blow them a kiss. Sometimes they look like they're going to blow a blood vessel after that. The other alternative is to respond with a happy wave and a cheery grin - pretend you think they were making a friendly greeting. This also seems to upset some people more than any 'smart' or 'in kind' response does. Those it doesn't upset, it confuses - I like to think they then spend some time worrying they might know me and I've recognised them. regards, Ian SMith -- |\ /| no .sig |o o| |/ \| |
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What would be your response?
"Ian Smith" wrote in message ... On Fri, 16 Mar 2007 17:05:23 -0400, bcps wrote: he shouts to me in a nasty tone, "Why don't you get a f---ing car!?". The last time a motorist yelled something similar at me was the passenger in a van. He leant out the window to yell it as the van went past me. I had the good fortune to take a shortcut avoiding a queue I knew he'd be in. As I came back to the queue I saw I was ahead of him (he was in a liveried van - very distinctive). Half a mile further on I turned off the road, so stopped in the turn, stood up and as the van drove past gave it an exaggerated slow hand-clap. The passenger didn't look remotely amused, but the driver was laughing so hard I worried he'd drive into the car in front. More commonly, if someone screams abuse I blow them a kiss. Sometimes they look like they're going to blow a blood vessel after that. The other alternative is to respond with a happy wave and a cheery grin - pretend you think they were making a friendly greeting. This also seems to upset some people more than any 'smart' or 'in kind' response does. Those it doesn't upset, it confuses - I like to think they then spend some time worrying they might know me and I've recognised them. regards, Ian SMith -- |\ /| no .sig |o o| |/ \| Excellent response. It is not good for an individual, on something as fragile a pedal vehicle, to get tight with a nutcase, a motor, and 2 or more tons of metal. But still... what would you have liked to say? I totally respect your attitude and I think it is a very good attitude to have. |
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What would be your response?
In alt.rec.bicycles.recumbent on Fri, 16 Mar 2007 17:59:22 -0400
bcps wrote: But still... what would you have liked to say? Most of the time the yells are incomprehensible. Sometimes I can just make out "nice bike" but the ones who yell abuse seem to have problems with consonants so I just hear "aaaooouuerriii" or something like it. If I heard "why don't you get a car" and I wanted to give a smart remark I'd probably just say "what, and spend all that money to sit in a traffic jam?" It's like my usual response to people who say "but aren't you worried about the traffic?" which is "why? they are mostly stopped after all!". That usually gets a grin and a "you have a point". But mostly I seem to get thumbs up and "nice bike" and people winding down their windows at lights to have a chat about it. The price of the thing usually boggles them alas. Most people think "bicycle, can get one at kmart for $99". If I get a chance to talk for longer and they say "I could buy a car for that" I ask them how much the one they are driving costs. It's usually more like 20 than 3, and that makes them think. Of course the best answer is probably "Because I'm having so much more fun than you are!" Zebee - who needs a sign for the bike in winter "yes I'm cold and I'm wet and I'm *still* having more fun than you are" |
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"Zebee Johnstone" wrote in message ... In alt.rec.bicycles.recumbent on Fri, 16 Mar 2007 17:59:22 -0400 bcps wrote: But still... what would you have liked to say? Most of the time the yells are incomprehensible. Sometimes I can just make out "nice bike" but the ones who yell abuse seem to have problems with consonants so I just hear "aaaooouuerriii" or something like it. If I heard "why don't you get a car" and I wanted to give a smart remark I'd probably just say "what, and spend all that money to sit in a traffic jam?" It's like my usual response to people who say "but aren't you worried about the traffic?" which is "why? they are mostly stopped after all!". That usually gets a grin and a "you have a point". But mostly I seem to get thumbs up and "nice bike" and people winding down their windows at lights to have a chat about it. The price of the thing usually boggles them alas. Most people think "bicycle, can get one at kmart for $99". If I get a chance to talk for longer and they say "I could buy a car for that" I ask them how much the one they are driving costs. It's usually more like 20 than 3, and that makes them think. Of course the best answer is probably "Because I'm having so much more fun than you are!" Zebee - who needs a sign for the bike in winter "yes I'm cold and I'm wet and I'm *still* having more fun than you are" I usually respond with "when my legs and heart are too old and feeble to peddle, I may consider it. Fortunately the "cool bike" and "rad dude" comments are far more common. Having said that, I do get some off colour comments as I whizz down a bike path at 35 or 40 kph dinging my bell and the dog-walkers and strollers taking up the whole width of the path actually have to move to the right as per signage. When someone comments or there is confusion (on their part) as to which side of the trail to move to I generally tell em "keeping right is generally safest", even the signs say so.. |
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"Ian Smith" wrote in message ... On Fri, 16 Mar 2007 17:05:23 -0400, bcps wrote: he shouts to me in a nasty tone, "Why don't you get a f---ing car!?". [...] The other alternative is to respond with a happy wave and a cheery grin - pretend you think they were making a friendly greeting. This also seems to upset some people more than any 'smart' or 'in kind' response does. Those it doesn't upset, it confuses - I like to think they then spend some time worrying they might know me and I've recognised them. The above is actually the best response. Why **** up your bike ride by getting all upset by a freaking motorist. Regards, Ed Dolan the Great - Minnesota aka Saint Edward the Great - Order of the Perpetual Sorrows - Minnesota |
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"Zebee Johnstone" wrote in message ... In alt.rec.bicycles.recumbent on Fri, 16 Mar 2007 17:59:22 -0400 bcps wrote: But still... what would you have liked to say? Most of the time the yells are incomprehensible. Sometimes I can just make out "nice bike" but the ones who yell abuse seem to have problems with consonants so I just hear "aaaooouuerriii" or something like it. Yes, lots of people stop me to talk about the bike. Two questions are a tie for first, "How do you steer it?" and "Did you make that yourself?" If I heard "why don't you get a car" and I wanted to give a smart remark I'd probably just say "what, and spend all that money to sit in a traffic jam?" Add to that, Palm Beach is one of the top 4 counties on the list of traffic accidents in the nation. It's like my usual response to people who say "but aren't you worried about the traffic?" which is "why? they are mostly stopped after all!". That usually gets a grin and a "you have a point" I am very worried about the traffic. Lots of people seem to say to each other, "What's that?" "I don't know, but let's run over it!" But mostly I seem to get thumbs up and "nice bike" and people winding down their windows at lights to have a chat about it. The price of the thing usually boggles them alas. Most people think "bicycle, can get one at kmart for $99". If I get a chance to talk for longer and they say "I could buy a car for that" I ask them how much the one they are driving costs. It's usually more like 20 than 3, and that makes them think. "How much?" is most popular question and comment #3... #4 is, "How is it on your back?" Of course the best answer is probably "Because I'm having so much more fun than you are!" A fair and true answer. And they don't know the half of it. I was riding along the sidewalk at the beach a few days ago. There were two beautiful girls in bikinis in front of me. I didn't want to frighten them because they might stumble and skin a knee, so I just pedalled really slow ;-) Perfect eye level... This guy walked by the opposite direction and I looked at him and said, "It just doesn't get any better than this..." He busted out laughing. Zebee - who needs a sign for the bike in winter "yes I'm cold and I'm wet and I'm *still* having more fun than you are" I've thought of so many signs. "Your ad here - call #########" On the bike, "My other ride is a BMW." On the BMW, "My other ride is a Penninger." "I'd rather be... Hmmm... never mind." |
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"Edward Dolan" wrote in message news:0eGdnSXImpIfO2bYnZ2dnUVZ_vqpnZ2d@prairiewave. com... "Ian Smith" wrote in message ... On Fri, 16 Mar 2007 17:05:23 -0400, bcps wrote: he shouts to me in a nasty tone, "Why don't you get a f---ing car!?". [...] The other alternative is to respond with a happy wave and a cheery grin - pretend you think they were making a friendly greeting. This also seems to upset some people more than any 'smart' or 'in kind' response does. Those it doesn't upset, it confuses - I like to think they then spend some time worrying they might know me and I've recognised them. The above is actually the best response. Why **** up your bike ride by getting all upset by a freaking motorist. This is true... I shouldn't let assholes turn me into an asshole - because being an asshole shows the world you are an incredibly unhappy individual. |
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Kudos Ed. Good answer. That is an approach I take to life in general.
Somebody at the train station bumped into me the other day because he wasn't looking where he was going. He stopped and said he was sorry. I responded with "no problem" or something similar. He said "I'm glad you weren't angry." My answer was "Why should I ruin my day?" Also, let me save you some time so that you can answer on-topic if you desire. Ed Dolan thinks: ALL TOP POSTERS ARE IDIOTS Jeff "Edward Dolan" wrote in message news:0eGdnSXImpIfO2bYnZ2dnUVZ_vqpnZ2d@prairiewave. com... "Ian Smith" wrote in message ... On Fri, 16 Mar 2007 17:05:23 -0400, bcps wrote: he shouts to me in a nasty tone, "Why don't you get a f---ing car!?". [...] The other alternative is to respond with a happy wave and a cheery grin - pretend you think they were making a friendly greeting. This also seems to upset some people more than any 'smart' or 'in kind' response does. Those it doesn't upset, it confuses - I like to think they then spend some time worrying they might know me and I've recognised them. The above is actually the best response. Why **** up your bike ride by getting all upset by a freaking motorist. Regards, Ed Dolan the Great - Minnesota aka Saint Edward the Great - Order of the Perpetual Sorrows - Minnesota |
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On Mar 16, 4:05 pm, "bcps" wrote:
This is almost too stupid to be legal... It was a beautiful day. I was riding my beloved Penninger on the sidewalk in Delray Beach, Florida (no, the police don't bother me because I'm a traffic hazard if I ride in the street and, besides, riding in the street down here would be suicide). Anyway, I'm stopped for traffic at an intersection (totally on the sidewalk, mind you) because I have to be really carefull in this area - ride slowly, watch every driveway and intersection - this trike is inherently dangerous, many tourists, people who think it is illegal to use turn signals, and blind drivers (read - old farts). So here comes this guy in his late 50's or early 60's driving an SUV (I hate those things...). Remember, I'm still on the sidewalk and totally out of the street. Out of the blue, as he is stopped right in the middle of the crosswalk of the street I want to cross, he shouts to me in a nasty tone, "Why don't you get a f---ing car!?". I was stunned... All I could do was say "why?" then shrug him off. So I peddled on down the sidewalk to the beach as I thought of other responses. Here are some of the things I thought of so far: I don't want to be like you... There are too many assholes in SUVs on the road... As long as you are on the road, I want to be on the sidewalk... Your SUV sucked up all the gas... My Beemer is in the shop... (that's a lie - it is sitting in my driveway collecting dust and bird poop) I don't have room on this thing for my cooler AND a car... Cars are really hard to pedal... My mother drives on these roads... I'm afraid of heights... (hold up a little matchbox car found by the road) got one ...butt... thanks for asking... I'm sure there are much more creative responses and I would really appreciate it if someone would add to the list because, judging from my experiences with people in this area (I just moved here 3 months ago), someone else is bound to make a similar comment in the future and I want to be ready for it ;-) WHAT ... and miss this opportunity to make your acquaintance??? Smile, and ride off leaving the driver bewildered. Jim McNamara |
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